Usually when you're the dumper, your remedy well, you just move on or suddenly have a new priority in your life whether it be school, work, new flame, etc.
The hardest part for the dumpee, however, is to fill that void, the dumper, used to fill.
I was quite inspired by this once former Xanga blogger when she wrote one specific post about how to get over a guy. I will make references to what she said because I totally agree, however, she's no longer blogging. If you so wish for me to reveal her site that used to exist, I'd be happy to direct you there, just message me and ask for it. For privacy issues, I will not reveal her name either. From #3 onwards are my own suggestions from my experience...
- Although it will take some time for you to get over this one person, easier said than done, dedicate one day to reminisce about this special person ... cry about it, go over pictures, notes, have some ice cream for God's sake, etc.
- Then you really have to make a 180 degree turnaround and stop moping about it.
- Go out with your friends!
- Find a hobby that will fill that time your special person once filled.
- If you really must feel like talking about it, write letters to this person but DO NOT SEND THEM
- JOURNAL or BLOG! Writing things out is definitely therapeutic so you don't have cooped up words or feelings.
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Hey I like your points, of ccourse my 'special person' didnt turn out to be all that special, and I don't think I ever reminisce about him in any good way. If anything its about how much I'd like too... well besides that. I always tell myself theres no better way to makes yourself feel better then a glass of milk, a large slice of chocolate cake, and a lttle tiny dancer. =)
ReplyDeleteice cream is a great remedy :)
ReplyDeleteI am an expert dumpee and i must say that these remedies are great.
ReplyDeleteice cream makes everyone feel better :)
ReplyDeleteI will definitely try those! Thanks for the tips.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this blog, definitely something that we all go through. It also helps to have a perspective on how other people deal with it. Personally, I usually go for the "play loud angry breakup songs at a ridiculous volume and singalong all the while convincing myself that I'm better off" remedy! Great advice!
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